Sawubona
Our culture encourages external validation. School grades, better degrees, promotion, pay rises, likes.
It reinforces a dependency on other people, and often people we would not choose to be dependent on.
Its opposite is internal validation. The stuff of soul and self. The warmth that is generated from doing things we love, that we are striving for mastery in. The knowledge that in some small way, we are making a unique contribution to something that matters to us.
This contribution may never be externally validated, and that doesn’t matter. We know, and our community knows.
There is nothing wrong with external validation, unless it is sought at the expense of internal validation. If that happens, we hollow out and become some sort of zombie.
We are at an important inflection point when it comes to how we work.
The way most businesses are structured creates the conditions that encourage us down the zombie road. When shareholder returns are given not just priority, but near exclusive focus, …
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